Are Your Sex Habits Normal?

I talk dirty while having sex

As men and women become aroused, neurochemicals released in the brain help lower inhibitions. "The closer you get to arousal, the more someone might be open to talking dirty or spanking," says Kerner. As couples get into their own groove and become mutually turned on, their heightened state of arousal can become sexually explosive. If you or your partner shouts something offensive that takes you out of the moment, before becoming morally judgmental you should evaluate how it made you feel and then discuss it with your partner.