With a threesome it started ( even though the first one was bad and the second) Now we are swingers and when we are swinging we are happy and talking and get along great. Now we have started tossing around the idea of having an open Marriage. Hmmmm what to do what to do. I love him to death but there is just something missing. We are open and honest with our feelings towards other people and what we want (for the most part anyway) Now to sit down and talk about the pros and cons and rules. Hmmmm What do we do.