Back Together and More in Love Than Ever

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John and Susan were childhood sweethearts, still loved each other deeply, but had fallen into a typical pattern of friendship and mutual caring without the spark of sexual desire and passion. John was seeking attention and contact with other women. Susan focused on caring for the children, working out at the local gym, and an occasional lunch date with a girlfriend to chat. Love is sometimes not enough to keep two people together when the passion and romance has dwindled. Fortunarly for Susan and John, they decided to do something about their current situation. In the first few sessions, as previously suppressed emotions came to the surface (anger, frustration, confusion, anxiety) the prognosis appeared almost hopeless. However, after that initial joint session, several individual sessions, and a few more joint sessions, the tone, the attitude changed. This couple, who had been sitting at opposite ends of the couch and looking away from each other, began to sit closer and closer, holding hands, smiling and obviously feeling that old sense of desire for each other. Both expressed how important it was for them to continue communicating, to set aside "dates" to enjoy being together, and to seek counseling again if they notice they are slipping back into living separate lives.

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