When the sparks have just begun to fly, it's a careful balancing act to keep them alive long enough to become a full-blown fire. And what happens if (gasp) the holidays fall right among those crucial relationship baby steps? Figuring out what to get the guy you've just started dating (or the crush you want to date) is, for most of us, like walking on a tightrope. One wrong move—a gift that says too much or too little—and the whole flame could easily go out. But never fear: we've come up with some easy options for every stage in a fledgling relationship.