“He wants to have a threesome with another woman.”

By

I met Lila, 22 years old, and Brian, 24 years old, who had been dating for six months when they came to me for advice about having a threesome. I could tell that Brian was more eager than Lila, so I asked her to tell Brian her concerns. She confessed her biggest fear was that he may prefer the other woman or could become addicted to threesomes.

I asked Brian to share his pros and cons of having a threesome with Lila; he said that on the upside it could expand their sexual horizon and would even agree to have a threesome with two men if she wanted. He could find no downside to the fantasy other than if it were to cause Lila distress.

I recommended they make his fantasy come true with the power of suggestion first, by pretending another woman was in bed with them. Lila would describe what she looks like, and then Brian can describe what she is doing to them both sexually in graphic detail. Afterward, if they may both really want to try it they can. However, sometimes the fantasy may be better than the reality.

Article contributed by
Advanced Member

Loveology University - College Of Sensual Knowledge

Relationship CoachWelcome to the Loveology University ® "Are ready for a Love Changing experience" Dr Ava Cadell - Founder of Loveology University http://www.loveologyuniversity.com
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Credentials: Other
Specialties: Communication Problems, Couples/Marital Issues, Dating/Being Single Support, Sex Therapy
Latest Expert Videos
ASK YOURTANGO MORE QUESTIONS
Resources
How to find the right pro for you
Dating Coach: Who Is Afraid Of The Dating Coach?

Who Is Afraid Of The Dating Coach?

Women will pounce on the chance to learn better ways to date. Men, not so much. Why is that?

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

10 Reasons Mental Health Pros Should Join YourTango Experts

YourTango Experts can help your business go from good to great.

10 Steps To Improve Your Coaching Business

Take your coaching business from mediocre to great in no time…

Frequently Asked Questions About YourTango Experts

Thinking of joining? Here's all the facts you need to know to make the most of your membership.

Getting Your Guy To Join You In A Therapy Or Coaching Session

So how can your get your strong, self-reliant, superman to talk to an Expert with you?

See more resources
LATEST VIDEOS
SEE MORE VIDEOS
Most Popular