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Gave Him The Wrong Finger

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Gave Him The Wrong Finger

N: 0cm 0cm 6pt" class=MsoNormal>She is not blameless...she wrote to the ex girlfriend and befriended her.  Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

She got extremely emotional on a regular basis and talked to him about his behaviour and how it made her feel.  She questioned him on things he didn't wish to answer and got angry with him when he would give her sarcastic answers that brushed her off and made her feel worthless.

While insanely intoxicated she wrote an e-mail to the "one that got away" and asked her how she got away...and why.  She confessed this to her husband, showed him everything and apologized to him.  He got angry with her, they fought, he broke down in tears.  Were the tears for her...no they were more so for the words that "the one who got away" had used to reply to her and explain how and why she got away.

She spent a good majority of her pregnancy crying and feeling worthless and making sure that he knew it.  She would ask him questions and try to get serious answers out of him.  she would chase him and hound him for answers and some semblance of how their life was going to be...some idea of what he expected of her.  She drove him crazy with her behaviour trying to get some sense of reassurance that "HE LOVED HER" to make all this crazy behaviour make sense.

She made a plan to go out for coffee with her ex boyfriend in hopes of getting some reaction from him, something that said he didn't want to lose her.  The ex, who had always been a friend and should never have been more and was only more very briefly, was in on the rouse as he wanted to see his dear friend happy and believed she was with the wrong man for her.  Needless to say it didn't go as she had hoped and though she knew it before hand that it was a bad idea...it seemed like a last ditch attempt to make something happen to show him how he made her feel and possibly inflict some fear that he might lose her so that maybe he would appreciate her...no so much.

She felt and acted jealous of women, all other women, anyone who he would look at or talk to... she knew that woman might be the one he cheats on her with.

She acts crazy...she talks crazy...she is jealous and that is crazy...she loves him, that is crazy.

Look at all the things he had to put up with being with her... He said he loves her...