He Broke My Heart, So Why Is He Contacting Me?
Are his intentions confusing? Be aware of what this might mean.
If, after a breakup, your ex-boyfriend is getting back in touch with you, it could mean a couple different things.
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Discussion
I am either on a break with my boyfriend or I can consider him my ex, I don't know yet. *lol*
Either way, I have been in this situation before... with an ex from a few years back. He was the loved of my life and someone I would have been content spending the rest of my life with. It was hard after we broke up because we still kept in contact EVERYDAY. I was just so used to it, it was second nature - and the same to him. That just made it worse.
So this time around, after said "maybe" boyfriend and I had a talk... I vowed not to make contact with him. It's only been a few days and I am not sure if he will at all (would be nice)... but he wanted his space to think stuff over (relationships and life in general). So I sit. Would I like to hear from him? Of course, but at the same time I don't think I would respond - like if it was by text. If he called, I don't know if I would answer. I think sometimes if you ignore it makes a point. It worked with that other ex I talked about.
So in your situation, he may having regret in ending things. But you need to ask yourself, is he worth the time to get back together with? If he is, then take it slow. Dont' jump right back in. He ended things with you so he needs to prove that he wants to be with you. I would let him take the reins and make plans, let him show you he cares. But then if you answer no, just ignore him. He'll get the hint. Guys may ne dumb sometimes, but not always.
