Call me crazy
By Classicfun. Posted on .
Call me crazy but I believe it is completely possible to fall in love and marry your first boyfriend/girlfriend. I may be young and naive but why couldn't it work? I'll be the first to say that I'm a very picky person when choosing a mate. That is part of the reason that I choose to not date until my early twenties. Why should I waste my time with guys whom I knew it wouldn't work out with. That all changed when I met Andrew.
It was the summer between my junior and senior year of college. I was working at our university during a summer program for new students to save up some money for trip abroad to study in England for the remainder of the summer. Needless to say I wasn't looking for a relationship. My responsibilities included being a supervisor to the new and inexperienced student staff. After weeks of preparation, it was the day that I would officially get to meet the new staff members. I got to meet them all and promptly decided there were no "prospects" and began to plan and pack for England. What I did realize was that there were a few people that I really clicked with, including Andrew. He wasn't my type at all. Shorter than me, younger, and he was of another ethnicity than me. (I always said I thought it would be to hard to date someone from a different ethnicity, so I never considered it) But for some reason I was drawn to him. We had similar personalities, laughed at the same things, and generally just got along really well. I started to feel that perhaps this friendship was more than just a friendship to him. We'd talk almost the entire time during work, then after work we'd spend the remainder of the evening chatting online. Finally he asked me if I wanted to go out, just he and I, on a date. Me being me and being in complete denial told him that I would love to hang out with him, but lets not call it a date. So we did and surprisingly it wasn't awkward. We continued on with our friendship for the remaining weeks. Then it was time for me to move back home before I left for England.
Two days before I left for England I received a phone call from Andrew. He sounded really flustered and I could tell he needed to say something. However I was out with a friend so he asked that I call him back later that evening. You need to understand that I had never had a boyfriend before nor had had anyone ever show as much interest as he had been showing so I wasn't sure how to act. Needless to say, I didn't call him back. Perhaps i was to afraid of facing what could be or falling for someone that I didn't want to, who knows. Basically I blew him off for the second time. Around 11:00pm that night I recieved a text message from him when I was sound asleep. My face immediately broke into a smile when I realized it was from him, that's when I knew that I had fallen. There was no denying that I had feelings for him.




