Advice: Can A Man Be Too Loving?
Can a boyfriend be too devoted to his girlfriend? When does it become a turnoff?
When does devotion to the one you are with become overkill? Is it really possible to be too loving?
Give advice or see what others had to say here: Can a man be too loving?
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Discussion
I dated a guy a few years back, who at one point told me, that he couldn't stop thinking about me and if he had it his way we would have been together 24/7. I obviously loved that the fact that he loved me to death, but it almost seemed like an obsession and that threw me for a loop. It was overwhelming since I was not definitely not used to that. I was always the one who would make plans with friends, just so that I wasn't "that girl" who ditched her friends for a guy... and he would get upset with that.
We broke up after a year together and I'm glad I had that experience with, it showed me that there are guys out there who are loving and caring and would do anything for you... but at the same time, you each need to spend some time apart so that the time spent has a little bit more oomph to it.
Ohh! Babe's... I'm hot for the doctor who made this home video!
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Hey Babe's... do you really know how to pick 'em. Let me ask ya somthin' ...is your relationship really solid, I mean do think I have a shot at it at all? If I overstep my bounds, just tell me... come on.
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It makes me wanna kiss ya... come on... come on, just one...
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Alright let's get on with this... let's see, I think I got a card around here somewhere...
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I understand, I understand... well, in order for me to be with ya I'm really gonna have ta get to know you... you know, we really got ta get closer, you know... move in with ya for awhile... get to be reAL pals... ya know what I'm sayin'?
Then I can show ya a reAL maN! Ohhh yeAH ... here I come baby!
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Women want to be loved. Not smothered or overwhelmed. You have to know your mate to know when to turn it down some. When not to be so "available" (Women like to say things like "i missed you today).
I'm not really phrasing this the way i want to because there is no real way to put it into words and keep it general because things like this vary from woman to woman.
