Is he an Emotional Bully?


I admit that I am an emotional woman. I see nothing wrong with expressing my feelings. I am not however an emotional mess that my BoyFriend thinks I am. I'm sure alot of woman can agree that we are wired different from men. What I am having issues with is every time I say something to my BF, Im too emotional. We can be picking back and forth on each other--all in good fun-- he will say the most hurtful things to me. When I get upset about it he says, "Honey, its just a joke. You take things wrong, and are too emotional." I try to explain myself to him, but in his world he is never wrong, and nothing he says or does is that bad, I just take it wrong. Here's an example... The other morning we were talking about our sexual pasts. (we live in a very small town) So, I said," I'm sure you know some of the people I have been with." He says," Yeah I've picked up the phone book." I was floored, I didn't even know what to say to him. I picked up my purse and went home. Yes, I know he was joking,but he takes it too far all the time. Its to the point that I tell him he is just mean to me, and he acts like its nothing, I'm over reacting. So my question is What do I Do? I love the man, he means the world to me, but when he is just mean for no reason What should I do? Am I to Emtional or is he a Bully?


Expert advice

Save your breath because you only need two words to make him commit.
Are you REALLY thinking about their happiness?
If you keep finding yourself in heartbreaking, dead end relationships, listen up.
It seems like you can't do anything right.