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Waiting Till Marriage? How To Tell Him

He may want sex before you're ready. Know how to deal with this situation.

Waiting until marriage to have sex? Know your limits and learn how to deal with men who pressure you to have sex. Matt and Tamsen give advice.

See what others had to say and give advice here: I have limits, how can I make him respect them?

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LordCAG Single built like a rock
Can't Relate, But Hear Ya - Posted October 18, 2009

smack him and tell him you'll scream, that should work.
and icoco I take it you generalize? if so your probably not worth sleeping with.

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lcoco Complicated
Posted September 16, 2009

It's not so much waiting till you're married but waiting for tha man you're going to marry.

ORAL?? Sticking something in your mouth is very personal.

That's pretty much what men want after they've been married a while. No physical effort on their part with the same saisfaction. Just lay there and get serviced.

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yuri Married GIrls! I love you.
Posted September 16, 2009

In the present times it isn't nessesary to wait until marriage day.If you like one another, don't worry and go to bed...It will help you to make a dicision for your future life.

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jf1
Posted September 15, 2009

Best to be up front with your feelings from the start , not that he'll listen. Stick to your standards sweetie, if he cares about you he wouldn't want you to do anything that you'er not comfortible doing and is willingto wait untill you are because while he wants sex he want you more. and if he's not wanting to wait you're better off without him any way.

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted September 15, 2009

I agree, best to be as clear and straightforward as possible.

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IloveBWL Single Still keeping the faith
Posted September 14, 2009

Way to go for you! Wait until marriage! It's the right thing and don't let any guy try to convince you otherwise! Stick to your guns! I'm almost 29 and still a virgin and 100% proud of it! Best of luck to you. :)

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