5 Reasons We're So Over Girl-On-Girl Kissing
Kissing is fun. But why do people act like it's such a big deal when two girls are doing it?
Don't get us wrong. We like kissing. We like it a lot. And we want everyone who enjoys kissing to be able to kiss whomever they want (as long as it's all consensual, of course).
But here's where we've had it: girl-on-girl kissing. Not the kissing itself. But the ridiculous hullabaloo that erupts around it. What's the big deal? Why do people care? And why do straight female celebrities (yes, you, Megan Fox and Katy Perry) keep making such a big deal out of the fact that they've done it? How To Kiss Well
Below, we've listed the top five reasons we're so completely over girl-on-girl kissing. The Love Life Of Lindsay Lohan
1. Lesbians do it everyday. So you kissed a girl and you liked it. Who cares? Gay women do it everyday and don't feel the need to announce it.
2. Straight people who do gay things with the hopes of coming off as controversial perpetuate the idea that gayness is controversial. And really, the last thing the world needs is to think that gayness is controversial. Why? Because it's not. Last we checked, it was perfectly normal. Homosexual Couplings Popular In The Animal Kingdom
3. Girl-on-girl kissing is so uncreative. So you want to get attention? Jump off a bridge and survive. Donate half your money to a decent cause. Learn how to sing. Seriously, come up with something better. Anything. Some Acts Better Kept As Fantasies
4. Straight people who do gay things with the hopes of coming off as open-minded are idiots. Kissing another female does not make a woman appear to be more enlightened. If anything, it makes her seem like someone who's willing to pretend to be something she's not for no good reason.
5. Girl-on-girl kissing isn't as sexy as you think. It doesn't prove to the world that you're good or fun or generous in bed. It doesn't suddenly make lesbians want to roll around in the hay with you. Most men know that it's not going to lead to a three-way (unless it's in a straight-man porno). Really, there are much sexier things a straight woman can do. Threesomes: A User's Guide
Discussion
Hey Lamide,
Didn't God make us to love each other ? and isn't homosexuality just the same as heterosexuality, as in two people love each other and have desire for each other ? And then who are you to be pro- or against- some people's love for each other ? Honestly. Where is it written what's normal and what's not ? Wouldn't you feel weird if you felt desire for someone and somebody came up to tell you it was abnormal ? Grow up ! God decides of everything, he sees everything, and if he didn't want homosexuality to exist it just wouldn't. Hope you grow more tolerant... God loves you and everybody.
Okay let me start by saying homosexuality is a perfectly normal, biologically determined reality of life. That being said the argument that because it exists God must want it to exist, or that wouldn't you feel weird if you felt desire for someone and somebody came up to told you it was abnormal argument is just about the worst I have ever heard. God gave us free will, which means that all kinds of things he doesn't want go on. How about murder, rape, theft, etc. People feel desire for things they shouldn't ALL the time, how about pedophiles and rapists? You want an argument in favor, how about why should anybody else care what two, consenting, adults do, be they man woman, man man, woman woman, as long as what they do doesn't hurt anybody else.
This is a great post that tells it like it is. I once kissed a friend, everyone in the next room starting asking like I was supposed to say something cool..especially the guys with a smirk on their face...I simply said "it was fun" and left it at that..what else is there to say...they made a bigger deal than I did. Most people don't get all giddy when a guy and girl kiss at the bar.
PS. that was like ten years ago.
Anyway,
good thoughts
