when i was out and in search of love. i dated women black and white but i encountered gay women who tripped out. the problem is i saw a very attractive, hot and beautiful woman. i was attracted to to her and i wanted to get to know her better. she was a white bar maid who was very nice to me. that is until i showed interest in her. we talked to each other all day long but when i want to take her out, she says im gay and looked at me with ahh. i thought she didnt like me and maybe had a man but she came back and asurred me she is gay and gave me her number. we talked and then she showed me her girl friend. we dont talk anymore but i just want to say why do some gay women get upset when a man finds them hot? please help me with this.