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The Secret Ingredient For Better Sex

Sweat can make your sex life better. Really.

It's summertime, and contrary to the famous song, the living is not entirely easy. The temperatures are oppressive. The humidity is stifling. Our energy bills are soaring. And all of us—whether we want to admit it or not—are sweating, and sweating a lot. 

But, despite the desire most of us have to stay cool and dry and at arm's length from other people during the summer, now might be the best time to get it on. All that sweat we're emitting may, in fact, be the hottest ingredient for a sexy encounter. Sweat Together, Stay Together

At least, that's what Yvonne K. Fulbright, the Fox News Sexpert is telling us. As she sees it, sweaty sex:

—Means more calories and fat are being burned during a vigorous sex session

—Allows for more slithery sex as your bodies slide all over one another

—Makes for a body suctioning effect that enhances feelings of "we're one" during sex

—Offers a new sensation that appeases our desire for variety, like salty kisses How To Kiss Well

—Puts a twist on your routine as it taps into your inner instinct for raw, uninhibited sex

—Can have the two of you resembling the wet sleekness of Sports Illustrated swimsuit models, with slicked back hair and shiny skin

—Releases more of our natural scents, particularly those around the groin, which can be an aphrodisiac, even if on a subconscious level

We appreciate Fulbright's enthusiasm for trying to make the most of our late August heat waves. And even though we find some of her points silly (honestly, even with slicked hair and shiny skin, we don't look like Sports Illustrated swimsuit models), some of her points certainly make sense (new sensations, like salty kisses, are always fun).

To her points, we add just a few more. Sweaty sex:

—Allows you to cut down on your cooling bills because the AC will be turned off.

—Gives you a good excuse to change locations, from the bedroom to the beach to the shower.

—Could lead to new toys entering your sex play, like ice cubes and cold bottled water. Toys In Babeland

—Makes you feel like you're doing a good job of pleasing each other; after all you're both steaming and wet.

We know sweaty sex may not be for everyone, but we do think it's worth trying. The worst that could happen is that you might find yourself wanting to wash yourself and the sheets afterwards (which, let's face it, we frequently want to do anyway). And the best is that you could find yourself having a very, very good time. 

Can you relate?

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Morticia New, romantic, energetic sassy
Can't Relate, But Hear Ya - Posted August 22, 2009

I'm all for a good sweat, but only at the end of a excellent sexual encounter. Sliding around on someones sweaty body isn't the sexiest thing to encunter for me. Skin to skin is the most sensuous thing there is along with your imagination. Imagination is the utmost "aphrodisiac" there is. Not any pill or toy you can use or not use, but, your imagination. You wonder how this person would feel if I touch them in their nether region, or kiss them on the neck and work my way down to their chest or around to their lips and gently kiss their lips with caressing kisses till they want for more kisses like this. Setting the "mood" is being yourself in this situation and when you set the "mood" you are using imagination. If you have no imagination, find a book on sensual encounters, a teaching book on the ways to open your imagination and see what happens. You have eyes, hands, lips and fully functtioning body parts use your imagination to it's fullest. If your shy, take small steps that lead to the big ones. Go for a permission kiss, soft kiss to get permission to kiss your partner, soft kiss to the lips and gently pull away. Then if the partner is receptive, you'll get more soft kisses in return and then more and more. Use the imagination, it works. EXPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE ONE

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted August 20, 2009

But once the a/c is off, will you still be in the mood?

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smily_cancerian Starting Over
Posted 6 days ago

yes, but it depends on ur partner's as well. if she likes or no to get sweet while having sex or no.

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