The Condom Commandments


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Condoms: bear these rules in mind before baring it all.

Imagine this: You're a young, single woman out in the jungle that is the urban dating world. One fine summer night, you meet a good-looking guy at a rooftop party. "Hello," he says, as you push your way through the crowd toward the makeshift bar. "Do I know you?" you ask. "No, but I'd like to get you another drink," he offers. You are charmed. "Of course—but be careful. They’re pouring heavy tonight," you warn. He laughs. Before long, you and the young man are conversing while throwing back stiff vodka tonics. Soon, you are making out. Why not, right? He invites you home with him. You agree. You are pleasantly surprised when you arrive at his swanky apartment, and it's clean! Before long, you're both naked. Then, he utters some alarming words. "Do you have a condom?" he asks. "Um ... Not on me. Don't you have one?" you ask. "Can we skip the condom? I prefer sex without a condom. I have great self-control," he explains. The Frisky: 36 Words You Should Never Say In Bed.

Suddenly, he is no longer so charming. "I don't know you," you say. But he persists. "I won't come inside you ... Please?" he begs. OMFG! WTF? Have I been magically transported back to 1969? The Frisky: What's Your Most Embarrassing Sex Moment?


Awkward and unsettling, right? I share this story with you—which is a composite I collected from a few friends—because it's been brought to my attention that an anti-condom trend is rearing its ugly head out there in Singleland. When I took a poll of single women, most said their recent partners had been more than willing to sheath the sword. An unsettling number said that they'd been pressured to throw down sans protection. Some split. Some went for it.

This might come as a shocker to most guys: Women hate condoms too! We think they feel weird and clinical! For this reason, it is particularly hard to be put in the position of "policewoman" in the bedroom. Still, we know we have to because, well, STDs and accidental pregnancies are scary. Condom etiquette is something that single women don't discuss nearly enough. If we are being put in this position—even occasionally—we need some open dialogue to take some of the awkwardness and confusion out of these situations. So, we have for you our eight condom commandments. No matter what your views are about casual sex, dating, or relationships, it's important to know where you stand on condoms before the moment "arises." The Frisky: Did I Break His Penis?

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