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The Links: Don't You Take Me To Cougar Town

Forgetting dating rules. Passing out after your wedding. And changing your name.

Because it's awash in a sea of mediocrity, we sometimes forget that there are some good things on the interwebs. I've scoured the entire nets (it took a while) for the best of love and relationships today so you wouldn't have to. Here goes: 

Over at Lemondrop, our good friend standup comic Allison Castillo (pronounced "kast-ill-oh") is fed up with the term "cougar." The Courtney Cox fall television show Cougar Town isn't helping things. Hopefully, the Bill Lawrence-created (Spin City, Scrubs) sitcom will use the time-tested comedic technique of pointing out the painfully obvious and exaggerating it. Check out the very funny Allison in our LoveFeed video series. Also Read: Five Reasons Being A Cougar Rocks

Speaking of favorite ladies, my buddy Lost Plum is fed up with your dating rules, America. And she will date as she damn well pleases. Check out which infractions she could give to doodles about.

Getting trashed at on a first date may be a gateway to things like getting trashed on a second date, drinking to excess at an engagement soiree, blacking out at the bachelorette party or, as Reuters tells us, passing out in a crate of vodka during or after one's wedding. 

Two more of my favorite ladies in the love and relationships space, Em & Lo (at EmAndLo.com), get the low down on some lube. And judging from the review, the author has gone from a lubri-can't to a lubri-can… but please don't call her a Lubri-dor Retriever.

Another poor bee has landed in Jezebel's bonnet. A survey suggests that over half of women want the government to mandate a woman change her name once married. Not surprising that the Jezebel ladies are against it; what is surprising is that they aren't ultra-irritated by the term "maiden name." One battle at a time, I guess. Read: The Great Name Debate

Remember that bloke Mazan Abdul-Jawad who thought it wise to get saucy on Saudi TV? Yeah, he's in trouble. And so is the station that ran his program, the Huffington Post gives further details of the debauched debacle.

Can you relate?

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Posted September 27, 2009

i'm getting married and my last name will be changed.but when you have a last name and you are the last living family with the last name,then i think it should be with the married name of your spouse.but with me my name will be changed and i did that with my first marriage.but everybody is different,and no matter what your voice is people have the right to keep their last name when single.i rather have my husband to be last name,then to confuse everyone with 2 last names. :) good point made though!!

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Bsg67 Married
Posted August 13, 2009

Yeah it's absolutely silly. It's an individual choice and should absolutely not be subjected to regulation.
Dana Bash anyone?

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted August 12, 2009

Women should be forced to change their names? Who even came up with the question? I am in shock that so many women would want to impose that on everyone else.

(For the record, I changed my name and see nothing wrong with either way.)

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