Divorce doesn't mean you get to close the door on the problems that brought you to that point; you still need to process them and accept your own role for the failure of the marriage. The next step is to take the high road the next time around and use what you've learned to make either your reuinification with your spouse or your new marriage a success.
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Thanks for your words of wisdom! I think this is a lesson, not just for divorces but for any break up.