Never Date & Blog

What makes these public declarations so stressful for them isn't just
that they know exactly how you feel when their maybe on the fence, it's
that there are all these other people out there waiting with bated
breath to see what happens next. People who might end up judging him if
the woman he's dating decides to blog about what she perceives as an
indiscretion or flaw or mistake on his part. Again, here we are back at
the male ego. It's fragile.

I
know, especially when you've been waiting so long and you've had a lot
of (public) disappointments in the past, what you really want to do is
show off a bit. I get that. You want to show everyone who told you you
were doing things wrong that they didn't know squat and you did.

Don't
date and blog. At least not without his permission. If you can, keep your
blog a secret until after he gets to know you. I've never had a
relationship work out when the man knew about my blog in advance.
Never. Doesn't mean it won't. But there's no doubt there is a
correlation.

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