I don't envy guys. Especially the good guys, who are often left cleaning up the messes made by the bad guys. We have a lot of good men on this site, who are often willing to set us ladiez straight when it comes to love and other indoor sports. Bsg67 is one such dude. In response to "Women Really Do Like Nice Guys", he writes:
About "old school chivalry", though, I do think it's not so clear that guys would be well-advised to go for that. Some women consider that to be sexist and feel offended to be treated like a fragile little think by their wannabe knight-in-shiny-armor.
Guys should be kind and considerate, but not necessarily adopt the protective, somewhat condescending attitude behind "old school".