This is obviously aimed at those who are Not College Sweethearts or Younger.
NEWSFLASH: It is 2010 people... I say it MUST BE 50 / 50 on all fronts. If You want to check out His Finances, Health, etc... You BETTER Expect Him To Check Yours Out as well. This is an Age of Dual Income or Die, Families. Only the Top 5% of Earners can realistically have a "House Wife" or for that matter, "House Husband" Who is a Full Time Homemaker. (I'm available.)
This, I warn You, makes a Marriage No More than a Business Arrangement and Begs the Question... "Why Bother Marrying if all it is about is Business?".
Marry someone You Love or Don't Get Married, just Draw Up a Business Contract. That is what a Pre-Nuptial Agreement is anyway. If there is No Romance, there will Never be a True Marriage.
DO NOT CHOOSE OR MARRY SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU FEEL THAT YOU CAN LIVE WITH THEM... CHOOSE AND MARRY SOMEONE THAT YOU JUST CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT.!!!
Your Heart Will Know... Trust it.
It seems to me the big question is when is it appropriate to ask these questions? They seem fairly nosy to me.
I got involved with my husband when we were fairly young. We never asked each other about health or family health issues, although when we deal with problems we talked about them. Finance were not an issue since neither of us had anything.



