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it will come to u...really?

you know how they say, " don't go looking for love, let it find you". yeah that's a good statement, yeah it's good to live by I guess...but what if the only kind of guys or girls that come your way are ones that you're not attracted to? I've found that when I go looking in a way, at least I'm going after someone I want..and flirting and dating with someone I know I like. but when I wait around, it seems like creeps come to me, the guys I'm not physically attracted to find me..and it's sooo frustrating!!

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