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Comment of the Day 07/29/09


There has been a lot of talk on this site about what our number means and if its even relevant. In response to the quiz, "How Many People Have You Slept With?", annabella writes:

My god, I felt validated when 'Samantha' admitted to sleeping with a mother load of men on SATC.
I am 46. Started having sex when I was 16. I have slept with about 30 men. I've been married for ten years and have remained faithful. So my annual average is about one and a half men a year if you take away the ten years of married life. I'm not ashamed of this at all. I practiced safe sex (most of the time) and had a ball. No pun intended.

Well put, Annabella. Our number does not define us.


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