MIL - Need I say more...Yes...

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Okay... I have been told that my issues with my MIL are common and very normal....
Well HELLO that doesn't make them any easier... Having to stand up to your MIL isn't an easy feat...
I was always under the impression that your husband was suppose to protect you from your MIL and her nasty way... Apparently that isn't the case... infact if they choose to do nothing about it, then that's okay....

Well excuse me... That's one little pill that l cannot swallow... Infact that's what has stopped me from confronting my MIL... Because the minute l confront her l know that it will be a case of...
"Why did you upset my mum for... was it really necessary...?"

Well sweet hubby, YES IT IS NECESSARY... There is only so much your sweet wife can take and tolerate... I mean why are wives expected to tolerate and except a nasty, rude and interfering MIL...
I am sure if we met a stranger who treated us just like our MIL's treat us we would immediately say something.

Well l am frustrated, irritated and absolutely dissgusted that wives are either expected to "Live with it" or "Deal with it" mostly on there own...

Why isn't the hubby expected to support his wife in this situation... Why is it up to the wife to confront the MIL... ? This really bothers me and it gets under my skin...

I mean, as wives and mother l am sure we do enough... Why don't the MIL ever see and admitt that we are good enough...?

and further more

Why have the MIL's and their precious boys gotton away with this type of behaviour for so very, very, very long....?

I understand that this has been a universal problem for hundreds of years...

What l don't understand is why is it still happening....?

I know that l need to confront my MIL myself,
l just think that it's extremely unfair that the husbands get away with not having to doing anything about it...

As mums we bear the labour pains, bringing up baby pains and all else that goes with it....

We should be rewarded for this not abused and insulted by MIL's who have gone through it and should know BLOODY BETTER....!!!

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