I've found a peck on the cheek then linger close to him just for a second or two longer then is necessary does the trick. It's a good move if you're not sure he's into you, wait until you're leaving then give him a hug and kiss goodbye. that's how I got my guy.
There's nothing wrong with women initiating the first kiss. I actually wish women do a lot of the initiating more than just waiting for the man to start it. We men cannot read women's minds unless there's a flash card above her in bold cap letters. :) So go ahead. Start something.
Went on a date with a very scared old timer ( I'm one also) We decided to go for a ride ,took my car , (he's was not clean) He was driving and behaved like if I was going to pounce on him at any minute . I calmed him down by not looking at him but at the road while talking.The date lasted an hour.He wanted to evaporate if it had been possible . At the time to leave I stopped him to thank him for his time and behavior as a real gentleman,and leaned towards him and gave him a small kiss on the lips that made him jump. then he said I was very nice and left almost running , I followed him and asked him to wait a sec.and gave him a big hug and a better kiss by that time he was shaking and his eyes were getting cloudy so I said bye... and left him.I went on vacation for a wk ; when I came back he told me he got a girlfriend and cannot date me again. Do the kissing girls , dont wait for him unless he is a grabber, you know the all hands guy. those are not worth to be with.Give the shy one a little encouragement .If not a kiss touch his face .Let him know you're interested without going too far.
THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY. GO AHEAD AND KISS HIM. WHATS HE GOING TO DO TELL YOU NO! LOL



