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4 Ways To Let A Guy Know You Want Him To Kiss You

Easy ways to let him know what you want.

You couldn’t have asked for a better date. He chose a good outfit. He opened the door for you. He was funny and charming. He picked up the check. He walked you to your car or subway stop. You’re pretty sure he wants to kiss you, but he looks pretty nervous. Here are four ways you can help him muster up the nerve to take the plunge:

Keep the conversation going. It takes a minute or two for a guy to psych himself up for the moment of truth. The worst thing you can do is give the impression that you’re in a rush to leave. So do everything in your power to let him know you don’t want this night to end. Why Do We Kiss? The Science Of The Smooch

Smile like a maniac. Men aren’t always great listeners, but we are fluent in body language. Now is the time to pull out all the stops--smile, tilt your head coquettishly, giggle and generally act like a thirteen year-old girl meeting a Jonas Brother. Now is not the time for foolish pride. 10 Things To Know About Kissing

Ask him, "So you’re gonna call me, right?" YOU know that you had a great time on the date, but there’s a good chance HE has no clue how you’re feeling. Do the guy a solid and let him know that you want to see him again.

Go ahead and kiss him! Who says the guy has to initiate the first kiss? Take a deep breath, pucker up and go for it. Dollars to donuts you won’t regret it.

Have you ever used any of these techniques? Have you ever initiated a first kiss? What’s the best first kiss you’ve ever experienced? How about the worst?

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cocobakes Single he's a right funny
Posted December 6, 2009

I've found a peck on the cheek then linger close to him just for a second or two longer then is necessary does the trick. It's a good move if you're not sure he's into you, wait until you're leaving then give him a hug and kiss goodbye. that's how I got my guy.

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nyrichard Complicated
Posted October 30, 2009

There's nothing wrong with women initiating the first kiss. I actually wish women do a lot of the initiating more than just waiting for the man to start it. We men cannot read women's minds unless there's a flash card above her in bold cap letters. :) So go ahead. Start something.

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riversong Single hope for new love
Can Relate - Posted August 4, 2009

Went on a date with a very scared old timer ( I'm one also) We decided to go for a ride ,took my car , (he's was not clean) He was driving and behaved like if I was going to pounce on him at any minute . I calmed him down by not looking at him but at the road while talking.The date lasted an hour.He wanted to evaporate if it had been possible . At the time to leave I stopped him to thank him for his time and behavior as a real gentleman,and leaned towards him and gave him a small kiss on the lips that made him jump. then he said I was very nice and left almost running , I followed him and asked him to wait a sec.and gave him a big hug and a better kiss by that time he was shaking and his eyes were getting cloudy so I said bye... and left him.I went on vacation for a wk ; when I came back he told me he got a girlfriend and cannot date me again. Do the kissing girls , dont wait for him unless he is a grabber, you know the all hands guy. those are not worth to be with.Give the shy one a little encouragement .If not a kiss touch his face .Let him know you're interested without going too far.

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nubiancoco Single
Can Relate - Posted July 26, 2009

THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY. GO AHEAD AND KISS HIM. WHATS HE GOING TO DO TELL YOU NO! LOL

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