I just wrote a 45 minute post that would have answered most of the problem in detail. Unfortunately, the page moved and I lost the material. So I will give you the short version.
I just retired as the moderator of one of the biggest forums in the country for guys that think they are too big, too small yet average, and then the truly small guys like me. I hate to do this but I have to give short answers to my points. But rest assured I can back them up. If you got a guy that is small, boy are you in for some fun. He can drive you up the walls with orgasms. But he needs to learn some stuff and the woman needs look at their partners size in a different light.
Facts.
1) The majority of women get their orgasms via the clit. Very few women get orgasms through intercourse alone. Next time you see some porn girl getting hit by a hung guy, you will catch them, if you look for them rubbing their clits in the exact same way they do when they masturbate alone. So some how, just the big penis by itself, is not making much of the excitement. It* may also be pointed out that the clit is external with nerves going into the front of the entrance of the opening of the vaginal canal. Anatomy charts all show this. And since I have my wife as my subject of anatomical reference, her nerves prove that the anatomy as portrayed in the science books are accurate.
2) It is the vast minority of women who are able to achieve a climax from the g-spot. Perhaps there are the women that are the “Size Queens. They shouldn’t be looked down as shallow people. Their g-spot orgasms are stronger that the clitoral ones.
3) Just as there is a minority of women that have experienced g-spot orgasms, there are almost as many women that can’t have orgasms in any form. That is sad because they either put the blame on some insecure guy, or it hurts women very badly.
4) Lesbians. We all heard this alibi. Lesbians to it without a penis. Well it’s true. They love each other like men and women, and turn each other on just as strongly. So what do they not do. They don’t look at the other girl and tell them that they don’t have a penis and she can’t have a good sexlife because of lack of size(really lack of penis) But what they do, do is to find out what turns the other one on. And then they can make each other climax through the ceiling.
5) If a women love a man, and the man the women, and size comes up as a perceived problem, then I recommend the man especially, to study at least 10 lesbians movies. The women who feel that their partner is too small to stay with might look on and see how the lesbians make each other satisfied too. Then they will be eye witnesses to the fact that seeing for themselves that you can have a happy sex life with a guy with a small penis. The lesbians of course don’t have any penis to work The guy needs to study very closely in each video how each girl turns on and satisfies her partner. Doesn’t it make sense that if it weren’t for the stigma of the small penis, the couple dealing with the small penis can also have atleast as good a sexlife as the lesbians do. And they are drooling over each other . The good part about watching the lesbian videos is the guys taking his first step to becoming a real good lover.

6) The guy has the responsibility to be a good lover. The guy should go to askmen.com and look up women’ top 10 hot spots. Everyone may be surprised what they are. But they work. “LEARN THEM”

But good lovers have certain qualities that a lot of the big guys are misusing. Such as making sure you are getting across that you feel is a very special women and in your love making, do everything in an attitude to please her.When she picks up on this, you get an automatic 10 points for that.

7) When you get #6 down, you may convince the girl that you know you stuff and the subject of small penises start fading away

8) Some women may seem that you are attempting to compensate for the lack of size. Nope, if you got a good lover, he’s a good lover
9) But God knew what he was doing when he put the clit on the out side. Let’s just say this. My 4.25 inch monster
10) I best be ending here for now. But tell me how many times you’ve seen women say,”It’s not the size, it’s whether or not the guy knows how to use it. This puzzled me. I thought to myself, what does that suppose to mean. I just came out of the bathroom and had a good pee pee. Isn’t that knowing how to use it. Then there were women saying, “its not the size, It’s the motion of the ocean” . I had no idea what that was. Could the girl be overweight and I had to get all her extra weight and boobs all working in the same direction? Well I finally got someone to tell me what all that meant. Now I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that all the nerves are from the clit and branch down on each side of the lips and entrance of the vagina.I actually did my own experiment and everything went just as the books had said.
11) What is the “motions of the ocean?” What does, “size doesn’t matter, it how he uses it.”mean. Well I found out from a co-moderator of that forum I used to moderator for.She was a female mod. The guy making different size circles with the base of his penis as his abdomen as his abdomen meets here’s. We all know what an optical illusion is. Well the circles create a sexual illusion. The girl will actually feel that your penis has much more girth than it really does.
12) My wife told me one time that as we were making love, that she was having a fantasy that the head of my penis, as small as it may be, was hitting her clit almost dead on and I came all over her clit. And I see it all the time in those porn movies that I study. I don’t like porn. There is this huge hung guy, and he has the head of his penis making direct as it hits directly of the girls clit. Suchs, even a little one like mine can do that.
13) How to “learn how to use it.” This is the creative part of intercourse. You start by going in as far as you can, and go real in and out real fast. Then you go slow and not go in so deep. Keep changing the pace,depth, and angle of penetration. Don’t make these changes every 10 seconds. Give each combination you pick and you will know when to change up on things.
So in all reality, the guy with the small penis is learning how to become the best lover. He is not compensating for a small penis at all.
I better stop here and waith until everyone start throwing their rocks at me.

she should tell him and see what he thinks of her.

SOME OF MY BEST LOVERS HAVE MEN WHO HAVE BEEN TOO SMALL. MEN WHO USUALLY HAVE SMALL PENISES KNOW HOW TO MAKE UP FOR IT IN OTHER WAYS. I WOULD RATHER BE TICKLED THAN CHOCKED. GIVE ME A MAN WITH A SMALL PENIS ANY DAY OF THE WEEK!

Nice tips!