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Advice: "Help! He's Too Small"

Does size really matter?

 

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Jant Jackson manhood101.com
Posted 5 days ago

This really has nothing to do with size. The only time women care about size is when they have very little emotional investment in the guy they're with. If a woman loves her partner, they will find creative ways to deal with small penis size. But there is no creative way to deal with lack of attraction. In 99% of the cases of small penis size, the real problem is lack of authority. If the man isn't in charge of his relationship, the woman has no reason to invest emotionally in him. Without that emotional investment, the relationship grows old very fast. This is when the woman starts caring more about physical sensations rather than an emotional connection. The fact that a woman even asks this questions shows her emotional investment in her man is not there to begin with, waning or gone completely. Without that emotional investment, size does matter.

So the answer isn't penis enlargement products. The answer is for the man to learn how to regain his authority in a relationship because the sexiest, most attractive thing a man can tell a woman is "NO." http://www.scribd.com/doc/21733512/Principles-101

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LordCAG Single built like a rock
Posted October 18, 2009

she should tell him and see what he thinks of her.

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Posted July 28, 2009

I agree I am not very big and I am damn good in the sack. Its how you work it.

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nubiancoco Single
Can Relate - Posted July 25, 2009

SOME OF MY BEST LOVERS HAVE MEN WHO HAVE BEEN TOO SMALL. MEN WHO USUALLY HAVE SMALL PENISES KNOW HOW TO MAKE UP FOR IT IN OTHER WAYS. I WOULD RATHER BE TICKLED THAN CHOCKED. GIVE ME A MAN WITH A SMALL PENIS ANY DAY OF THE WEEK!

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Qverb Taken Rugburns, sarcasm, giggling, beautiful
Posted July 22, 2009

I find it kinda interesting that Tamsen really didn't have much to say other than understanding that a lack of sexual chemistry can put a real burden on a relationship...

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted July 22, 2009

Nice tips!

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted July 21, 2009

Want to know the proper way to measure a penis? Click here for fun facts on penis size:

http://www.yourtango.com/200927078/fun-facts-about-penis-size?lid=more

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Posted August 5, 2009

Use it. No need for rulers. If you are satisfied it's the correct size.

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