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What to say when you're fine with being single, but your family is not. [Betty Confidential]

I had recently returned from a family reunion. I went there ecstatic to see everyone and proud to perform a show and tell of my accomplishments: new job, new race time and, most importantly, my new four-inch heels. None of this, however, seemed important in the mind of my relatives. My Great Uncle Larry interrupted my long winded accomplishment spiel to say, "Heidi I am just so disappointed that you don't have a nice man to introduce me to. What's wrong with you and your independent cousin? When will you find a husband?"

Things not to say to your man while shopping. [Lemondrop]

No condom? No problem (maybe). The withdrawl method might work better than you think. [New York Times]

Sound off: Can you live without oral? [Em and Lo]

Dealing with the tough feelings that come during a divorce. [First Wives World]