Guys have trouble expressing what they want because today's men are basically pussified manginas without a spine. They have been beaten down by feminism to the extent that they are scared of vocalizing their sexual needs.
Men need to come when they have sex. If they don't come, they are satisfied. Period. If a man is unable to vocalize his sexual needs, the problem has nothing to do with sex. It has to do with his lack of male authority in the relationship. Without that authority, he has no means to get his sexual needs met. Without authority, the orgasm is irrelevant: http://www.scribd.com/doc/21733512/Principles-101
I really understand what Tuss is sayn' after 20 yrs I am still the same. But then I finally realized that once I started to verbalize how I feel during our sex escape like BookMama said it cut down the talk during sex.

