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Love Bytes: Tips To Picking Up Guys At A Bar


Picking up men, ten things not to say on road trips and figuring out what you want in a guy.

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Who do you dress for? [TresSugar]

10 things you shouldn't say on a road trip. [Lemondrop]

Tips from men on how to pick up guys at a bar. [Em&Lo]

First, just approach him and strike up some decent general conversation — truthfully, the odds of this being received well are high, even before any chemistry is determined, and you get points already for being outgoing enough.  Soon enough, if there’s any semblance of a spark, just come right out and be candid about what you’re looking for, whatever that may be.

How to figure out what you are looking for in a man. [Single-ish]

A woman who hasn't been single since she was 17. [Nerve]


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