YourTango user Lovebugg asked "How can I learn not to be passive in relationships, and not wait for the other person dictate the pace of the relationship?"

We went to America's love expert, Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal, for their advice on how to deal with this situation.  For more advice from Matt and Tamsen, check out their website, Ask Matt and Tamsen

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