How To Avoid Being A Passive Girlfriend


America's love experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal help a woman take control of her relationship.


YourTango user Lovebugg asked "How can I learn not to be passive in relationships, and not wait for the other person dictate the pace of the relationship?"

We went to America's love expert, Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal, for their advice on how to deal with this situation.  For more advice from Matt and Tamsen, check out their website, Ask Matt and Tamsen

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Expert advice

Save your breath because you only need two words to make him commit.
Are you REALLY thinking about their happiness?
If you keep finding yourself in heartbreaking, dead end relationships, listen up.
It seems like you can't do anything right.