Well Dana, I think the answer to your question is REAL obvious. TELL HIM! I'm sure he be more than willing to comply. Also, entring into the dialog could prove ver beneficial-sounds like such talk stimulates him-AND, it would help to direct him toward the things YOU like to hear.

I had only started using HOT, stimulating type dialog in later years. My wife thought it was funny. She use to say I should write for Penthouse Forum(letters?). I think they're all phony letters anyway, they all seem to have the same signature characteristics of writing. I think the same person writes most all of them.

I do wish she would've joined me in the dialog. I was never sure if she liked it or not. When I'd ask her, all she'd say was "It's alright". I think it can sometimes lead to more stimulating sex if done well and enjoyed by both.