If you have a strong attraction to a person after the first date, should you have sex? Is wanting to have sex after one date bad?

In this episode of Still Life Love Advice, YourTango asked resident chili pepper for red-hot reasons why sex after a first date should be avoided – and it’s not what you think! “The longer you put it off, the better you’ll be at all the nonsexual parts of loving,” says the chili pepper.

So, will holding off on sex be worth it? Check out the video above to find out!

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