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Red-Hot Reasons To Skip First-Date Sex

Avoiding sex in the beginning can improve your relationship, in the long run

"Is it really that bad to have sex on a first date?" -Gerry, Virginia

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Posted June 1, 2009

is a relationship condemned if you have pretty early sex, but say like the third date, is that too early , even if you've known the guy from work,for some time?

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Posted May 31, 2009

If u r reading this, then u will find a dead bloody body hanging in ur closet. U will be haunted and killed by her. to stop it posti this to 6 other videos in 30 GOOD LUCK

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Posted May 23, 2009

Just think how amazing your sex would be if you waited till you were married...

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Posted May 21, 2009

damn i remember when it used to be a big deal of having pre-marital sex and now most people do it after a couple dates haha...

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Posted May 21, 2009

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Posted May 20, 2009

oh man, that freaked me out at 0:37 when their pubic hair grew so long from not having sex, it covered them completely!

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Posted May 22, 2009

Umm....that's a blanket?

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Posted May 20, 2009

Uhh, I agree with ewoodrebel-- and I'm a girl. It's up to the 2 of you to decide for yourselves. If you want it to happen, let it happen.

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Posted May 20, 2009

stop brainwashing girls to be f*****g retards. go with the flow.

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Posted May 20, 2009

ha ha ha omg omg the comments on here are sooooo funny

truepaths:
oh man, that freaked me out at 0:37 when their pubic hair grew so long from not having sex, it covered them completely!

sNb206: isnt that a blanket? lolz

ha I laughed so hard I cried lol

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Posted May 20, 2009

we got a few cheste/prude lamers thumbing down the funny comments, and thumbing up all the boring feminist/politically correct comments though, like if they're on a comment-section crusade lol. They come here to be serious! internet: serious business

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Posted May 20, 2009

14 and still for absitnence! whoo hoo! My theory- if a man really loves me, he'll wait for liz:]

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Posted May 20, 2009

Mine too, and im 16!

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Posted May 20, 2009

not mine!!! yay for pre-marital sex!!!!

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Posted May 21, 2009

YAY!

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Posted May 19, 2009

great vid!

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Posted May 19, 2009

Is it socially unacceptable to wait until marriage to have sex now?? Geez..

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Posted May 23, 2009

More than one marriage has been broken by bad sex. Why wait until it's too late before you get to know each other in that area as well?

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Posted May 19, 2009

oh man, that freaked me out at 0:37 when their pubic hair grew so long from not having sex, it covered them completely!

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Posted May 20, 2009

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLL

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Posted May 19, 2009

isnt that a blanket? lolz

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Posted May 19, 2009

If a woman doesn't put out on the first date me and her are officially over.

J/k

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Posted May 19, 2009

wow, that was put so simply and clearly and just made so much sense... i'd always heard that a girl shouldn't put out on the first date, but i guess my opinion was the same as the question askers but with a touch of a feminist attitude... ''why not?'' ...... when you put it as simple as this video did, it just makes sense!

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Posted May 19, 2009

first comment!

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Posted May 19, 2009

great video!

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This Happened To Me! - Posted May 30, 2009

But It remained a friendship because someone else got me into bed!!!!!!!!!
Strike while the iron is hot!!!

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