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But here's the thing: feminist or not, I don't want to miss out on the babies. Unexpectedly strong mommy impulse trumps Vulcan logic. And Marco's not ready to miss out on his career. He wants to keep being a creative, whether outside or inside the home, something I entirely understand. After two or three decades of "becoming," neither one of us wants to let our professional faculties go dormant.