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Love Bytes: The Things We Do For Love

To lube or not to lube, God is the answer, and babies on board.

Love Bytes: Three must click sex, dating and relationship links.

Has lube become a replacement for foreplay? [College Candy]

Derrick* and I used to have great sex. We were both passionate, experimental, and great in bed (hey, confidence is a turn-on, right?). But lately we have been in a rut, and I blame it on lube.

Does inviting God into bed count as having a threesome? [The Huffington Post]

Baby drama in the new economy. How to deal? [Recessionwire]

But here's the thing: feminist or not, I don't want to miss out on the babies. Unexpectedly strong mommy impulse trumps Vulcan logic. And Marco's not ready to miss out on his career. He wants to keep being a creative, whether outside or inside the home, something I entirely understand. After two or three decades of "becoming," neither one of us wants to let our professional faculties go dormant.

Can you relate?

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Watersisland Starting Over
Posted May 17, 2009

Ah, uhm, I think I'm lost as to what this whole page is suppose to be about. Is there a story? Oh well, lack of a story is no reason to NOT leave a comment. I'll just pull something out of this cacaphony of statements above.

Saliva is the best lube(yes, I HAD to pick this one),applied orally by each of the couple(to the other). Sometime it takes a while as the skin is very pourus and you must continually run your toungue and mouth around the area untill suficiently wet(you and your mate). Sometimes when one mate applies saliva to the other-they both become wet-I think it 's called 'osmosis'. However, the lubricant produced by the males organ is usually not sufficient alone for insertion.

Whaaaaa? Re:BookMamma "for the inside of yor vagina to grow" ? At the risk of sounding VERY stupid, I"ve never heard such a thing before(who cares, it's not like you'll snicker at me on the street-seems there quite a few people that look like my picture above) . Maybe I havn't read enought Books-Mama. I even took A&P (did very well-espeially on identifying all the parts of the female human body). I'm certainly aware of particular outside organs swelling . I guess if you use the logic of blood engorging all sexual organs when sexually arroused-that would have to be true. I've just never thought about it that way before. I'll have to observe closer next time. SHE- always did seem fascinated watching mine move around and grow. Well, I seem to have gotten very much off topic here somehow (what was the topic?). I think I'll change my screename(or my picture?) before posting this one. Let's see, if I just punch this key right here....

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BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted May 17, 2009

A thought on the lube and bad sex - lube gets you wet. It doesn't make you larger. You have to be excited for the inside of your vagina to grow. It is not a replacement.

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