How to tell if he's cheating? For starters, he is very possessive of his phone - takes it everywhere, but makes a point of turning it off when he's around you. Then, he'll excuse himself and go off somewhere and if you peek around the corner you can see he's talking to someone. He'll also spend a tremendous amount of time on the computer. I don't recommend checking his email, nor his phone. Stay away from those tempting little tell-tell things simply because it's an invasion of privacy.

Second, anything you take to his place is collected in the morning so that you be sure to "take it with you - hey, you might need it"... um, ya, right.

Third: When you go into a place for a drink, the bartender can't help but give him a "look" like, "hey, Cassanova, weren't you here just a few hours ago with someone else"?

Fourth: New gifts arrive unexpectedly - oh, and they're from his mother. You betcha. Good ole' mom, how thoughtful.

Fifth: He doesn't want you to even look at his mail - incoming or outgoing (even though you used to pick it up for him, or take it to the post office).

Sixth: The sheets on his bed are ALWAYS being washed.... this one is the true tell-tell sign. Before, you both changed the bed once a week - suddenly it's every other day? And he'll give you some lame excuse about learning about bed bugs. (Bed bug, indeed - you're sharing that bed with two roaches)......

Hope this helps you...
Jane
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