Comment of the Day 05/11

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Comment of the Day 05/11

This weekend we received a lot of great comments ranging from infidelity to boob exercises. Although sadly, they are not occurring at the same time. I loved this comment by user julie43, who weighted in on the hefty subject of infidelity. She writes

I found out 10 weeks ago that my husband of 5 years has had no less that 4 affairs. This has been devastating to me. However, as stupid as this sounds, this is a man I still love. I asked him if he loved any of these women; his answer was "Oh GOD no!" After I got over my tears and yelling, I realized there had to be a reason this was happening. I chose to go to counseling and pushed him to join me. Together, we are discovering quite a lot about the things that were missing from our marriage and things that we can do that we can do to work on this relationship. During this time, I've never hated my husband nor really wanted him to leave, I merely knew something was really, really wrong. He works out of town and had the affairs while away from home. Building trust is hard and I do find myself worrying constantly, but we are learning new respect for each other, and he is working hard to rebuild that trust. I do believe that my finding out about his infidelities has had a positive effect overall. This has forced me to really look at our relationship in a brutally honest light and I am able to assess that there were problems I was in denial about. I am grateful we are working on things and I am certain that with time we will get through this and find our union much stronger.

It's a sign of a strong relationship that you two can weather a storm like that. Thanks Julie! Over on a completely different article, "Me, My Husband And My Baby: Who Owns My Breast?" User LyndaW gives us her take on the boob debate, explaining how she did her booby exercises to keep her ladies perky? Did that arouse your interest? Well, Lynda explains what booby exercises are...