I’ve brought up a break up once. It was over him getting extremely close to a female friend.  After all, if I’m the only one for him, why is he texting girls using pet names and excessive kisses at the end? I put up with it for months, but as soon as I saw the suggestive texts from her, I decided, either he was sending her some signals OR she was just a whore. Either way, I’m not having it. I’ve been cheated on before, it’s not happening again.  When I told him I was leaving him, he just broke down, told me he’d do anything for me and deleted her number and hasn’t text her since. I didn’t want that, I didn’t ask him to stop texting her or speaking to her.  I simply said if he were in my shoes how would he feel.  I don’t want him to stop speaking to girls, I understand it’s a way of life, he’s very social. He in effect begged me to stay with him.  I thought I’d love this kind of behaviour, someone needing me to survive… Mehh, not so much, I want a MAN not a boy.  
But then again, I think of the possibility that I’m just impossible to please. I’m adamant that I want a caring, open, intimate relationship.  But I can’t see past the fact that he’s so easily upset, most of the time I don’t even speak my mind in case I offend him.  
Other aspects of our relationship are great.  We have the same taste in movies, music and leisure activities.  He is amazing in the bedroom, he likes to treat me, take me out etc.  He’s also extremely funny.  But I think that’s just it.
What is a girl to do? Plod on or stand her ground? I know I can’t be the only one in this predicament.


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