Poll: Do You Love Him But Hate His Family? By YourTango EmailPrint Comment? Share on Facebook Is it worth breaking up with a boyfriend because his family is the pits? In-laws can be difficult to handle. Would you break up with your boyfriend if you couldn't stand his family? Poll: Do You Love Him But Hate His Family?: Yes. It's hard enough to make it work without all the baggage. No. The only thing that matters is our love, we can figure out the rest. His choice. I'd make him choose between me and the family.