Cheating doesn't have enough supporters. So it's sometimes refreshing to see a user come along and turn the conventional wisdom on it's head. Bluesmomma2 tells us that sometimes, she thinks cheating can help a couple.
"I have seen many couples who too frequently "grow apart" permanently. When handled carefully a bit of a "filler" (emotional or sexual) can actually free a person to re-focus on their "real life." Ideally, the couple would set boundries and "let" their spouse have the experience....but then, most people live in too much fear of loss."
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