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Poll: Is Good Sex More Emotional Or Physical?

You know you wanna get down with this.

We all know what a good romp in the bed is worth. 

But, the way we achieve that good time is different for all of us. So, good sex—more emotional or physical?

Can you relate?

Discussion

WENDYLUV79 Married Loving, LilFreaky, Fun, Taken!
Posted July 12, 2009

in my opinion it takes both!
if there is zero emotional connection how is there going to be any physical connection!?
same goes for the physical...
but just because you may have a rockin bod doesn't mean your going to have great sex -
or if your really emotionally connected you'll have great sex either!
takes imagination, connection, and mood of course...

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noangel293 Taken falling in love.
Posted July 8, 2009

Of course it's both... but when forced to choose, I'd have to say emotional. Because I've been with men who had the mechanics and well, package down perfect... but it wasn't good sex. Good sex is when you're in the moment with that person and moving with that person mentally and physically... as one being. So it's can't be just physical.

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sTaYzZsiiNgLe Single still waiting but patiently
Posted July 6, 2009

physical

when having sex the first thing that comes to mind is not how much i love this person...more of how good it feels.

Score: -1
BookMama Married Happily Married
Posted May 9, 2009

I can't figure out how to answer the question.

Score: 0
jss Complicated occasionally worthy of comment
Posted May 5, 2009

It's both, of course.

Even sex with a stranger has to have some fantasy emotional content. "Emotional" isn't just the "mushy stuff."

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