ME AND MY BABY'S FATHER IS NOT TOGETHER BUT WE ARE STILL HAVING SEX. WE DO NOT HAVE GREAT COMMUNICATION BECAUSE WE ALWAYS END UP ARGUING.WE TRY NOT TO ARGUE BUT HE HAS A VERY DEMANDING WAY OF PUTTING THINGS. WE DO NOT GO OUT ON DATES OR ANYTHING AND I THINK ITS BECAUSE HE IS EMBARRASED OF ME. I HAVE MET HIS IMMEDIATE FAMILY BUT NO ONE OUTSIDE OF THAT. HE NEVER ASKS ME TO GO ANYWHERE WITH HIM OR INCLUDE ME ON OUTINGS WITH THEM EVEN WHEN WE WAS TOGETHER. I WAS TRYING TI FIGURE RATHER OR NOT IS IT WORTH TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT BECAUSE WE HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER AND I STILL LOVE HIM BUT HE JUST HAVE CERTAIN WAYS OF PUTTING THINGS AND IS MEAN (HE IS TO EVERYBODY). I THINK HE IS ALSO UNATTRACTED TO ME BECAUSE I GAIN 50 POUNDS WHILE PREGNANT WITH OUR CHILD. I WANT TO KNOW IS IT WORTH TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT? HE ALWAYS TELLS ME HE WOULD WANT A FAMILY WITH ME AND HIS DAUGHTER IF WE CAN PUT ASIDE OUR DIFFERENCES AND TRY TO WORK TOGETHER INSTEAD OF AGAINST EACH OTHER AND THERE ARE THINGS WE BOTH NEED TO WORK ON BEFORE WE TRY TO GET BACK TOGETHER. IS OUR RELATIONSHIP WORTH TRYING TO WORK IT OUT?
The best position for you is, quite often, simply what feels the most comfortable. Certain positions will be less comfortable than others - sometimes being on top, sometimes being underneath. "Experiment and find out what your preference is. Don't feel locked into what's expected of you as far as top or bottom. Perhaps if you have a tilted uterus, certain positions or angles may be more comfortable," says Dr. Jane Greer, marriage and family therapist & SHRINK WRAP media commentator.
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