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The Healthy Way To Get Over A Breakup

How to heal a broken heart after ending a relationship.

Ending a relationship wreaks havoc emotionally and physically. Taking on some healthy new habits can help your broken heart have a speedy recovery.

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Shoha Single
Can Relate - Posted November 4, 2009

"i love you" is a fancy word to deliver specific message to an object . One of the hidden keys we can find in side of the word " I love you" , i as i am, you as she, is comfortable participating on all the activities or some activities life inquires to be living human. Witch basically meaning that, can relate or match there past, present and future wives together or had an similar Ideas about relationship.
Time, circumstances,desire,Ideas etc change, witch will change our wive to an any event.

There are different reasons for breaking up but they all end,fell the same, no matter what look or personality is involved in this relationship.
Age of 16 i meet and fall in love with a girl who had similarity in personality. This even happened in Asia. But letter on same year i left Asia for good.
For 3 years tell i found new love, i was getting hurt thinking about her existence.
My new life begone in New country with different mentality. People where different girls where different. I meet a young girl who was from country witch i never knew of . We fall in love, we dated but i was cheating on her with my other girl friend witch was also from different country. I fall in love with them bout, when i needed to break up with one of them, i was actually hurt.
Then time past i end up breaking up with the last girl i had left with . I remember all the feeling touts and everything was going on my head, time of the all events. They all have the same ending , no matter what personality,mentality,deference's.

You should come up with alot of ideas just from reading this story.
I am still learning English, remember that if your thinking his writing is honorable.
I will come up with better copy if requested
Thank you for your time

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Fran121 Single
Can Relate - Posted October 28, 2009

Split up with boyfriend two days ago.. feel like I can't do anything... but there was a reason we split up, even if a sad and ironic one. But just think people... It happens for a reason... for you to find better... This guy obviously wasn't right for me in the long run.. but you got to face break ups in order to get stronger.. because you are not gonna make that same mistake again are you? It's all a learning curve... how ever long it takes you to get over them...

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Posted June 29, 2009

Rather give your self some LSD

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Posted June 29, 2009

LSd is amaaaazing i love it

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Posted May 18, 2009

Funny, cause, my boyfriend and I just broke up and I got sick from the stress. Now I have no voice. Yay.

FML.

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Posted May 14, 2009

lAME

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Vasha Starting Over new BC wanted!
This Happened To Me! - Posted May 30, 2009

The faster you get a replacement the better!! Get out and have lovers or better still ALWAYS HAVE LOVERS!!!

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Posted April 23, 2009

There have been times where I started useing drugs to kill the pain after a break-up. It seemed to work for a bit but not in the long run, it just made matters worse. This happens to alot of people. But 'please' take my advice for the people who fall into that category. I know from experience it does not help. Not physicaly, nor mentaly. You wont be ontop of your game if the next Mr. or Ms. comes along. And of course its not good for you. Good luck!

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Posted April 20, 2009

lol@ "and fast"

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Posted April 17, 2009

already done that need more

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BigAl Taken
Posted April 7, 2009

Break-ups are just about the worst thing I've ever gone through. Though I do have to say, my tummy seems to benefit from all the Ben and Jerry's I eat in the aftermath... They don't call them love handles for nothin! If my heart does have to suffer through another devastation, I will try the advice and hopefully my body and mind will pull my heart of it.

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Kataroo Single Glass half full girl.
Posted April 6, 2009

I agree, LeMaster. Breaking up is partly about wanting it to be over. And I think a lot of people only focus on what was good about the relationship when they should really be focusing on what was wrong with it and why they are better off without it. If it was so great in the first place, wouldn't you still be together?

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LeMaster Married I was born ready.
Posted April 6, 2009

Sometimes, the cold hard truth is that people don't get over breakups because they don't want to. You have to decide you don't want to love someone anymore if you want any steps to be affective.

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Posted April 3, 2009

i think working out helps. coz you get a better body which makes you feel good n be more competitive on the market. but also doing exercises releases happy hormones.....so just work out till you drop

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Posted April 5, 2009

I agree! I worked out like crazy everyday after a painful breakup. While I exercised, I had time to sort out my thoughts and feelings. And it distracted me from the breakup. The best thing was, I was able to lose a lot of weight too...

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Posted April 21, 2009

maybe if you would have lost the weight first you wouldn't have broken up

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Posted April 22, 2009

ha ha, f*****g awesome dude

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Posted April 22, 2009

hahah you are so mean haha

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Posted April 2, 2009

start a blog is 'physical health activities?"
guess it is....
maybe.

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Posted April 2, 2009

Well, you'll eventually get over it either way.

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Posted April 2, 2009

Not necessarily true.
I was engaged to my high school sweetheart, and he broke it off with me while I was away at college.
It's been about 4 years now, and I'm not over him.

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Posted April 2, 2009

I had said eventually, and how deep you were into the relationship matters because the deeper you are the harder it is to move on, and have you found anyone else yet are you just hung up on him because if you haven't, you'll be stuck on him longer.

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Posted April 2, 2009

No, I'm not interested in giving my heart to anyone else. It's not worth my time as far as I am concerned.

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