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Steve Harvey Advises Ladies To Think Like Men

Steve Harvey is the latest comedian to write a relationship book for women. A million times a charm?

Wait (gulp) 90 Days Before Having Sex (!!!!): "Slow down, ladies," Harvey says. "Look, you cannot run us off...you all keep changing the rules. And men are aware of the fact that you are changing the rules. We're aware of the fact that you act desperate. We're aware of the fact that you think there's a good shortage of good men out there," he says. "We play on all of that. We created the term 'gold digger' so you won't ask us for nothing. We created the term 'nagging' so you can quit badgering us. These are terms that we created so you can require less of us."

We still think it's unfair that a healthy female sex drive is a punishable offense. Perhaps our daughters, daughters can act like a lady, have sex like a man and escape any horrid male judgement.

Can you relate?

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted March 24, 2009

I fail to see how waiting 90 days to have sex is thinking like a man.

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Tom Single
Posted March 24, 2009

Good call, Lyz. It seems a little arbitrary. It's like a guy say, "I'm Audi A5 if we don't get to the sexing by the end of date number three."

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Posted March 24, 2009

I hope for all of mankind to have a healthy sex drive, but depending on what you are looking for, sex or a relationship, what this guy says makes sense.

I read a very good article the other day where it talked about how a particular man raised his son, and one of the things this Father told his son was this, and I love it: "No matter what you are feeling, or how horned up you are, when you are thinking of, or about to have sex with a woman, look her in the eye, and ask yourself, "do I, or would I want this woman to bear my child", because condoms break, and things happen." It is an excellent question we should all be asking ourselves before we bed with someone.

Best Wishes

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted March 24, 2009

I couldn't agree with you more!

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