We would have to both be out of work and sell all of our belongings to move back in with either family. My parents are drivers and motivators and we would not have a moments mental space. His parents would smother with care and attentoin to the point of folding underware.
My hubby, myself, and our son live with my M.I.L, and it's an almost perfect situation. I am very happy with it. Occasionally, she will say something that I think is completely ludicrous, but with the finished basement to ourselves, a dishwasher, a laundry room, access to her car, living on a dead-end road, and no rent to pay, and having a free live-in babysitter ... I'm am beyond grateful!!!
I lived with my future in-laws for three months while i planned our wedding. Actually, it was a great experience. I got to know my MIL and FIL so much better. My FIL died after we'd been married for a year and I view that time I had living with them as a wonderful experience and I feel like I know my husband so much better.



