Here we are....
the only problem is open communication..
Kenneth is 52 and I am 38 I know that seems like alot but he is so good for me sometimes it just seems unreal.
Our sex life is totally out of this world, nobody has ever gotten to me like he has...hard to say it but not even Lee in 22 yrs..ever made me feel the way I do. I had just about wrote off having sex until I experienced it with Kenneth.
BUT I have a problem and dont know what to do about it..the problem is he gets distant..and it is hard to reach him sometimes and he tells me it doesnt have anything to do with me but it is effecting me not knowing what is bothering him. I know him welkl enough to know when something is wrong. I have to have total openness. No secrets. I had too many with Lee and it destroyed us. I did learn from those yrs what I need and I cant settle for any less. Kenneth agrees same thing but he holds back from me..how do I get him to open up to me like I do him or do I just let it go and let him distance when he needs too.
Discussion
You need to be straight forward with him let him know that ur feelings are hanging on the line let him konw that you cant help or undertand whats going on when he won,t tell you let him know that the past is the past and u don,t care this is ur future u need to know his past so that it can help in the future . Try going into it at a differnt angle try asking him small things like about his family his childhood what he does for fun what he like,s what he don,t like after you get him to open up a little then he will open up more just remember your number one you have to look out for you and what,s best for you let me know how things go.
