When you're really attracted to a man, it can be hard to tell if he's attracted to you—especially if he doesn't know if he's gay.  Even a sexpert like myself has been blindsided by a boyfriend's (or two) sexuality. But just like cheaters, there are some tell-tale signs if he's homosexual. So, look out for the red flags that show he should be waving a rainbow one…

1. Fire Starter: You always make the first move.

2. Action Figure: The only women whose hotness he comments on look like Barbie dolls. It’s just too convenient to say you’re only attracted to exactly what society tells you to be into.

3. T&A: He may go to your boobs and your booty, but you have to take him by the hand to lead him to the Promised Land.

4. Q&A: You’ve wondered, "Is he gay?" After getting to know him, most of your friends would say, "YES!"

5. Private Eyes: When close to another man, he’ll stare at their body. For example, he'll watch the waiter's gun show when he drops off your plates.

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