In summary, we can all be a little more like Seal. It's OK if you weren't born with golden pipes. You can still drop the need to act cool, let down your guard and let the love roll in whatever way you know how to express it. After that feel free to get a little crazy, propose in an igloo (or tree fort) and keep the laughter rolling. And remember that the act of just smiling makes you feel better.
*No conversation like that has ever taken place.