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Single In 2009? Move To Atlanta

Atlanta is, per word on the street, the best city to be single. I'm skeptical.

My homies at Lemondrop want you to consider Atlanta. I know the capital of the New South may sound like a risky proposition but surveys (the irresponsible little brother of science) say that Atlanta is the spot to be single in the US. Seriously, those Real Housewives Of Atlanta seem like they're having a ball and one or more of them may be legally retarded. You, a perfectly reasonable young person who looks 29 and is 29, should have a good time in the Dirty Dirty, right? Unfortunately, it's not that easy. I'm from the Atlanta suburbs and was somewhat shocked (I wouldn't say nonplused because no one says that any more, nor does anyone say vexed) that the Phoenix City (so named after that mutha ucka Sherman burned it to the ground) was named a great place to be single. But, Lemondrop says that the ATL (that's what the kids and TI call it) is the spot to be single. I took an informal survey of everyone lady I know and they find this finding highly dubious. Which made me wonder, what if Atlanta is just an awesome city to be a single dude? And if so, what am I doing in NYC?

ESPN's Sports Guy (Bill Simmons) has been harping lately on the idea that Atlanta is a sweet city to be a single dude (he says something about purchasing a plane ticket and a 50 rack of condoms, little does he know that a Southern gentleman would never use them, relying instead on the good virtue of the young lady he is on top of). Evidently, there's some combination of Southern, blonde, boozy and nice weather that makes Atlanta a great place to pick up ladies. Outside of the Southern, blonde and nice weather parts, isn't every city kind of an awesome place to be a single dude? Since I've lived in New York, I've constantly heard that it's hard out there for a single gal but I haven't heard much complaining from the menfolk. Is it possible that we're just living in an unprecedented time of easy tail and empty promises? I've spent a lot of time in Miami and it seems like every woman down there (in addition to being really, really ridiculously good–looking) seems to think that there is a shortage of good men. The men, for their part, must think likewise because being an OK guy seems to get the job done. Per the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, the city may soon be way less fun as laws are knocking the wind out of the sails of the beverage industry.

I've no doubt there are some totally dateable people in Atlanta (like my buddies PJ and Jason), but I'm starting to think that the phrase "it's a good city to be single in," only really applies to the dudes. Thoughts? Any Atlantans out there feel strongly one way or the other? Check out the Lemondrop article if you get a sec. Their choice for international city to be single in may surprise you. Plus they throw in a nice Top Gun-era joke.

Can you relate?

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Lyz Married Community Manager
Posted January 12, 2009

Reason to move to atlanta:
1. food
2. southern belles

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been uesed for my money Married Be honest with yourself
Posted January 12, 2009

None of these is good enough to live there in my opinion . . . here is my list of why it makes more sense to NOT make Atlanta your home base:

The people here are super nice . . . Nothing personal.

Top ten reasons to move out of Atlanta

1. Worst traffic congestion in the country (ok, second behind D.C.)
2. No decent/effective public transit (yeah, they have MARTA but is was broken when it was new)
3. Crummy primary/secondary schools (GA ranks 48th in scholastic achievement nationwide)
4. Selfish/crooked politicians who don't solve problems
5. All the professional sports teams suck
5a. WAAAAYYY Too much football coverage.
5b. Not enough NASCAR coverage (even for having TWO races here).
6. People from Alabama and Florida hate you when you are in 'their' state.
7. Drought stricken (no car washing or lawn watering or be fined).
8. Self righteous bible belt-think (I know better what's good for you than you do).
9. Racism is alive an well and on display.
10. Enough already with the red-neck schtick !!

Honorable mention: good ol' boy cops (300+ lbs and an attitude)

Top ten reasons to move to Atlanta

1. _____

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