What a bunch of prudes. One night stands can be WONDERFUL SEX-and isn't sex suppose to be WONDERFUL? Yes, I often looked down on that kind of behaviour when I was younger and when I was married raising children. When I was younger because I felt that only a real heel would attempt to get into some girls pants just for one night. Unfortunately I severely limited my pleasures and experiences and probably that of quite a few women with that attitude. If I didn't think the female I had encountered was "THE ONE" , I usually wasted too much effort on developing an exit strategy before attempting to take advantage of the situation that any chance for a passionate encounter was lost-particularly if I didn't think the female was one I wanted to have a lifelong relationship with. When I was married because I certainly didn't think a few moments of extassy would be worth the guilt I would feel later.And rightfully so on that count. Well now I'm older and wiser--and divorced. There are often other women that arent looking for a permanant 'mate'-for whatever reasons. We all still need some physical passion. I'm sure play toys get real old after a while-just as going home and taking out 'THE GOOD BOOK"(Playboy?) does. And besides, neither provides warm moist breath,passionate squeals, or have hormonal and phermonal scents to them. There's no baggage,no long term expectations, and no guilt so long as each knows the others intent-just sex!.One night stands can be just what the doctor ordered when you don't have an ongoing relationship. I was at a beach bar a few months ago and saw a very pretty young lady standing at the counter waiting for a drink. There was a chunky fellow sitting at the end stool with his arms crossed looking out and around and then he turned back to the girl and said "I'll be your protector tonight". She kind of rolled her eyes as if to say"whatever" and turned her attention back to trying to get a drink. I started to talk with him(he initiated) as I was also waiting to get a drink. Obviously they had chatted a little and she had let it be known she was there by herself. The fellow tells me he use to be a 'Marine' and he's gonna watch out for this young lady and make sure no-one try's hitting on her so she can enjoy herself. I said," Maybe she CAME here to get laid" I felt a little embarrased-she turned her head towards me. She HEARD me. She smiled! "Are you here alone" she said to me. The 'Marine' looked dumbfounded as she followed me back to my table where I had been alone just listening to the band. She was from out of town and was to meet some people out in the Bahama's the next day and had a flight to catch at noon. She didn't need her hotel room that night and we had a great time. As a postscript-I went to my accupuncturist the next day and told him I thought his treatment was working; I wasn't having any lower back pain and I felt I had more bounce to my step. He said"well maybe the accupuncture, or maybe some young girl you met! HOW DID HE KNOW?!!

THE ONLY RULE SHOULD BE PROTECT YOURSELF. WEAR A CONDOM. IT IS A ONE NIGHT STAND RIGHT?

the first rule is to never know their name... never ask and if they tell you forget it immediately.