OK, guys, get ready to hit on Kate Hudson. Celebitchy reports that the actress thinks having a list of things you desire in a mate is egotistical and that she’s pretty open when it comes to dating people. She says, “I’m not a judgmental person, if I had a checklist it would be dangerous and I would probably date nobody…I think that’s an egotistical approach and egos ruin relationships. You have to be open to everyone.” She also says that she doesn’t have a lot of experience dating, citing only three relationships (Owen Wilson, Lance Armstrong and Dax Sheppard) since getting back in the game after she divorced her ex-husband of seven years, rocker Chris Robinson, who she married when she was only 21 years old.
So, check your ego at the door and be sure to bring the funny because you might have a shot at dating Kate Hudson.
I do have to argue that this approach to dating does actually speak to her inexperience. If you have no idea what you want in a mate and do not have even a slight list of do’s and don’ts, you might waste a lot of time dating people who are just wrong for you. Having standards and some idea of what you want out of your relationships is not egotistical, it is a smart way to go about selecting a partner (I imagine this is how she wound up with Dax Sheppard. Just sayin’…). You know the old adage “If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything?” Having some specifics in mind when going out there will save you a lot of time, a considerable amount of frustration and might actually help you find someone of quality much more quickly than if you go out there and throw caution to the wind.
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