Audrina Never Called Lauren Conrad a Slut

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Audrina Never Called Lauren Conrad a Slut
The Hills star clears the air about her reaction to LC and Justin Bobby.

The drama continues to stir on MTV’s hit reality show, The Hills.  Us Magazine reports that one of the stars of the show, Audrina Patridge, took to her blog in defense of her actions pertaining to rumors that the show’s star Lauren Conrad had a fling with Audrina’s on-and-off boyfriend, Justin Bobby.  Audrina stated, “I just want to put it on record that never did I EVER call Lauren a ‘slut,’ ‘bad friend,’ ‘shady person,’ etc... I simply asked her a question and that's how she interpreted it.  I didn't go around town running my mouth either.”  She goes on to explain, “Bottom line, Justin and Lauren treating me like I wasn't worthy of an explanation was almost worse than the rumor itself, and it only got worse the harder I tried to get a genuine answer.  Instead, I got screamed at and they both got super defensive.”  She ended the post with, “So I guess I learned a very valuable lesson this week ~ communication is NOT key, so if something bothers you, keep your mouth shut and smile, or you will end up apologizing later. :)”

Again, yes we know it is scripted reality and we really have our doubts after reports that Heidi and Spencer are really married, but let’s address this for the all of you out here that might have these types of issues.

For any of you in Lauren’s situation, where someone has accused you of hooking up with their significant (or insignificant in the case of Justin Bobby) other, giving someone the silent treatment and using the if-we-were-friends-you-would-never-ask-me-this-question defense only fuels the fire, even if your life has been plagued by rumors of sex tapes and whatnot.  Addressing the rumor head on and quashing it quickly is the only way it will go away.  If you didn’t do it, agree to pull everyone in the same room to silence the concerns right there.  If you did do it, come clean and accept your losses like an adult.

If you’re in Audrina’s situation, your gut instinct is never wrong, girl.  Obviously if your best friend and boyfriend are acting like they don’t owe you an explanation, those red flags are going to go off and we all know that nothing makes most women crazier than cutting off communication amid rumors of cheating.  After watching the show and seeing LC and Justin’s reactions when Audrina did confront them, I would assume something went down but because she got upset they were able to blame it on you.  This is called deflection, people, and most people who are trying to conceal something use it.  Also, to address Audrina’s last comment in her blog post, staying quiet and smiling if you thinking someone is banging your man is the LAST thing you should do.

As for Justin Bobby, he treats you poorly and has obvious issues. Your relationship with him is juvenile and drama-ridden. Get rid of him.

Can you ever be friends again after these types of concerns?  It depends.  If one of you really did hook up with your friend’s lover, then chances are the damage has been done. If it’s really just a rumor, it can be repaired if both people are willing to trust each other afterwards.  If not, it’s the end of it.

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