i'm not surprised, i can remember staying with a couple ,only platonic darn it, and he coming out from the bedroom in the morning and reaching out for her face ,,,,,she said not with those hands!! i know where they've been during the nite ,scratching your ballz, your azzz, whipping willy around to get the last drops off when you p**'d during the nite......how true for many. and i'm surprised at how many people, i only see men in the men's room , lol, don't wash their hands afterward, WTF!!!! no concern for thier own hygiene much less those they may be holding hands with. so girls when your guy 's finished using the facilities and you touch his hand it should at least feel moisturized or send him back like the little boy he is to do it right. just to also add some insight into what's on men's hands and i'm sure some womwen too, when they test the pretzels or chips bowls at the bar ,... don't know why it would be that much different at a private party,.... they find a disgustingly high amount of urin on the snack foods, ugh!! how did it get there , yep! you guessed it probably contributed in part by the one you're setting there holding hands with ,maybe even getting into kissing and sucking thier fingers and i love to do that too, so girls please make sure you wash after potty like a good babygirl,wink......ps i'm not a compulsive hand washer but i do at least once after i touch something that may have germs or dirt, etc, but then i'll turn around and kiss and lick and suck the area of a woman where as i said, that disgusting urin comes from to get in the chip bowl,LOL, LOL, LOL,,,,,oops just thought of my screen name now that's a whole nother topic, anyone care to comment on that? LMAO!